A Guide for Men on How to Have a Threesome

I don’t have to explain the reason why so many men love threesomes. Just imagine the pleasure and sex when having sex with your partner, double it when having a threesome. Although threesome is the fantasy for many men, it can also be a nightmare and a challenge if you do not know how to do it. If you are a couple, it can wreck your relationship and tear you apart. If you are a single, it can leave you bad memories and you may never want to try it again. On the other hands, a nice and well-done threesome dating can open a new world and lead you to explore sexual spectrum. It all depends on how you do it. If you just care about your own pleasure, there are chances that you probably don’t get to finish the threesome. However, if you be considerate for everyone and be gentle and respectful, there will be many more times for you to have threesomes.

I would like to offer you two basic and essential rules for a successful threesome. If you follow these rules, you can enjoy the pleasure and fun of threesome to the top of your bent.

Be open and honest. Don’t be shy. If you are open to have a threesome, pudency is not a virtue here. You have to be open enough to talk about sex without hold. Talk about boundaries. What do you want and what is not wanted? Is kissing okay? Is touching okay? Just like these small little things. The more detailed you talk about, the bigger chances you have to experience a successful threesome. If you are a couple, talk about the third person. Who are you going to choose? Who is not going to take part in? Is it going to be a “he” or “she”? Are you going to find some stranger or someone you are familiar with? Discuss these things together. Decisions must be made by both of you, not by one person. Everyone has different boundaries, make sure you understand and respect them. If you want a comfortable threesome, you need to make all parties happy and satisfied.

Be considerate and generous. You may use to be a monogamous holder before, but as soon as you agree to bring another person into your relationship, you should abandon that idea provisionally. Now that you are on board, you might as well try your best to establish a wonderful journey. Threesome requires consideration and generosity. You should be considerate of the third person. He/she did not come for the pleasure of you two. He/she came for the pleasure of its’ own. You won’t be happy and satisfied unless you make him/her happy and satisfied. Be generous of your partner. Know that you are going to share your partner with the third person, you partner is going to share you with him/her. Just think of you all as a whole, which is absolutely true. You share one bed and you are on this together. Just be generous.